Stewardship Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

My parish is composed of people like me;

I help make it what it is.

It will be friendly, if I am.

Its pews will be filled, if I help fill them.

It will do great work, if I work.

It will make generous gifts to many causes, if I am a generous giver.

It will bring other people into its worship and fellowship, if I invite and bring them.

It will be a parish of loyalty and love, of fearlessness and faith, and a parish with a noble spirit, if I, who make it what it is, am filled with these same things.

Therefore, with Your help, O God, I shall dedicate myself to the task of being all things that I want my parish to be.

Reprinted from the September 2019 issue of One Family in Mission newsletter, courtesy of the Office of Parish Stewardship, Diocese of Rockville Centre.

All Souls Day

All Souls Day – November 2

Book of Remembrance by
the Paschal Candle and Baptismal Font.

Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed

As we remember our faithful departed during the month of November, we must remember that our prayers for the dead bind us to them in the communion of faith and life promised by Jesus to all who believe in Him. All Souls day is a commemoration of all those who have fallen asleep in Christ marked with the sign of faith and who, we pray, may one day join the saints around the great banquet table of the Lamb. We pray for the dead; we pray for the forgiveness of all their sins; and we pray that God, in his great mercy, will take them to himself.

Please pray for those deceased members of our parish family.

The following links are to the bulletins with the names of deceased parishioners from the previous year.

2019 2018 2017 2016 2015 2014 2013 2011 2010 2009 2008 2007


Sacrament of Reconciliation

Saturdays at 11AM in the Church in the reconciliation room is below the stained glass window of Mary Queen of the Universe in the Right Transept (closest to the door for the handicapped entrance).
Reconciliation can also administered by request.
For first Reconciliation: Enroll and attend classes in the parish religious education program.

For examine of conscience, please visit the US Conference of Catholic Bishops’ site at

Some helpful documents:
Examination of Conscience based on the Ten Commandments

Examination of Conscience in Light of Catholic Social Teaching and

En Español

Examination of Conscience for Children

Examine of Conscience for Children Ages 7 – 14

Examination of Conscience for Young Adults

Examination of Conscience for Single People

Examination of Conscience for Married Persons

Forward in Faith Together – Our Road Ahead Presentation

Letter in English       Letter In Spanish

During the Easter season Cardinal Joseph W. Tobin, Archbishop of Newark, announced his new pastoral
vision called Forward in Faith Together: Our Road Ahead.

This vision maps out the future of the Archdiocese with six key pillars to create a positive path forward for all the faithful, clergy, and religious in the Archdiocese, while simultaneously addressing the key challenges of the past. Forward in Faith Together seeks to engage more fully laity of all ages in the life of the Church. It also seeks to strengthen unity among the clergy and the people they serve, and to empower deacons and consecrated women and men. Additionally, it emphasizes lifelong faith formation and education, and the ongoing formation of clergy.
Forward in Faith Together will ensure that, together, we thrive as a community of disciples, companions of our Lord, Jesus Christ. All are encouraged to engage in this process. Please speak with your pastor or parish administrator about how to get involved.

For more information about Forward in Faith
Together, visit Here you will
find the complete pastoral vision document along
with a letter and video message from Cardinal
Tobin and other materials. Cardinal Tobin will present Forward in Faith
Together: Our Road Ahead at four county parishes:

All presentations are from 7:00 to 9:00 P.M. All parishioners are invited to a session in their county.
We can do all things in Christ who strengthens us. Philippians 4:13

Mission Statement

The Roman Catholic Faith Community of St. Thomas the Apostle recognizes God’s call to be a sign of His Kingdom in the communities we serve.
We respond to this call by:

  • Leading people to a deeper relationship with Christ by providing opportunities for spiritual growth, renewal, education, the celebration of the Sacraments, and the worship of God in the sacred liturgy;
  • Encouraging a commitment to justice and to service of those in need;
  • Promoting good stewardship of our time, talent and treasure;
  • Building a community of hospitality and support in the daily living out of Christian ideals by nourishing mutual respect and understanding within our Church, our families, our community, and other faith traditions.